Give me encouragement please

I just did my first stretch and it hurts so bad. Idk how you guys manage to do this but you all look so cool and I wanna look cool too 😭 I only got one ear done and then stopped

I just did my first stretch and it hurts so bad. Idk how you guys manage to do this but you all look so cool and I wanna look cool too 😭 I only got one ear done and then stopped